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		<title>How to break rules?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 16:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have been taught to break rules to feel free from those who have power, but the way we do it may not be the best one. Why?  To break a rule, you need to understand the underlying reasons behind it and the probable consequences produced from your actions.
For example, there is a rule: [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have been taught to break rules to feel free from those who have power, but the way we do it may not be the best one. Why?  To break a rule, you need to understand the underlying reasons behind it and the probable consequences produced from your actions.</p>
<p>For example, there is a rule: <strong>Do not steal.</strong><br />
<em> Why would you break that rule?<br />
</em></p>
<p><em></em></p>
<p><em></p>
<ol>
<li><span style="font-style: normal">The sense of power and the adrenaline rush produced by stealing.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-style: normal">Severe hunger, being no more option available in your mind.</span></li>
</ol>
<p></em></p>
<p>Is there a reason behind stealing? Yes, there is always a hidden &amp; evident “why” behind everything.</p>
<p>Stealing is considered wrong because by doing so, you are interfering with the rights of a person who worked hard to obtain a certain good.</p>
<blockquote><p>Remember, laws change as people change. Don’t try to break the law to change it, better change people’s ideas, thus law will change.</p></blockquote>
<p>However, there is a lot of people out there who “legally” steal. There are no apparent consequences of their doings, don’t be fooled, there is always a result. This kind of stealing is protected by laws&#8230; If this is possible, how many other things are not ethical, but still accepted socially?   A lot, this is the basic reason rules should be broken. Do it smartly.</p>
<p>For example, doing drugs. You may do drugs to break the rules and challenge the law. Or you may not do drugs, to challenge the peer pressure “social” rules, you’ve got to do what everybody is doing.</p>
<p>Is the point clear?</p>
<p class="redtag">There are a lot of ways to break the rules. The problem is we fall into the same trap that is supposed to release us from those irrational rules, we loose credibility, and end up doing nothing&#8230;</p>
<p>Let’s give another example, piracy.<br />
You may break the rules by selling or copying rigidly copyrighted content because you believe the way companies have manipulated the law is against the fundamental principles that created copyright (to promote creation). You may also break the rules by creating wonderful “commercial” work and giving it for free or by using a creative commons licenses.</p>
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<p>Now, do you really want to break the rules? Do it, but do it properly. Irrational action produces violence. Clear thinking produces change.</p>
<p>How? Ask yourself:</p>
<ul class="arrows">
<li>Is it a selfish reason?</li>
<li>Why would you break a rule for a self reason?</li>
<li>Do you want to produce change?</li>
<li>Do you want to release anger?</li>
<li>Do you want to feel the adrenaline rush?</li>
<li>Do you want to feel power?</li>
<li>Do you want to challenge authority?</li>
<li>Do you break a rule because you believe it will make you belong to a group?</li>
<li>What are the consequences you can receive by breaking that rule?</li>
<li>What are the long term consequences society could receive by breaking the rule?</li>
<li>Is the rule you are breaking challenging the law? Is there an alternative way to make the point without breaking the law?</li>
</ul>
<p>Sometimes, the best way to prove your point is by being original. Everybody can break a law. There is probably no law that hasn&#8217;t been broken by someone.  Be creative! Don’t follow the rules, but distinguish the difference between a rule and the law.</p>
<p>Change can only be approached slowly, people are afraid of change, don’t try to force anything, think thoroughly about your reasons, doubt them, and learn what freedom really means.</p>
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		<title>Understanding Freedom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 06:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To <strong>questions your own thoughts </strong>is a interesting path to really understand freedom.
<p class="message">To question your thoughts means:<strong> I admit I can be wrong.</strong></p>

Therefore, I can change because there is no need to be who I believe I am because you need to admit you can be wrong to accept change.

They teach us to see freedom as something external; like the capacity to choose a president or to choose what to buy, but freedom actually is <strong>the removal of paradigms and chains your mind </strong>; to remove those limits, so you can live fullfilled and happy.

Freedom can even mean to be a child again, and ask: <strong>Why?</strong> to everything, even what seems most obvious. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To <strong>questions your own thoughts </strong>is a interesting path to really understand freedom.</p>
<p class="message">To question your thoughts means:<strong> I admit I can be wrong.</strong></p>
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<p>Therefore, I can change because there is no need to be who I believe I am because you need to admit you can be wrong to accept change.</p>
<p>They teach us to see freedom as something external; like the capacity to choose a president or to choose what to buy, but freedom actually is <strong>the removal of paradigms and chains of your mind </strong>; to remove those limits, so you can live fulfilled and happy.</p>
<p>Freedom can even mean to be a child again, and ask: <strong>Why?</strong> to everything, even what seems most obvious.</p>
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		<title>Who is the real you beyond concepts and ideas?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 17:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life is full of breaking points, instants creating the opportunity of change, your choice: Take them or leave them.   You walk the way you believe makes you feel is great about yourself. Most of the time, our ideas depend, if they are not thought by yourself thoroughly, on the collective mind, they way [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life is full of breaking points, instants creating the opportunity of change, your choice: Take them or leave them.   You walk the way you believe makes you feel is great about yourself. Most of the time, our ideas depend, if they are not thought by yourself thoroughly, on the collective mind, they way society has elaborated rules and concepts.</p>
<p class="message">As a consequence, many things that make you feel great or bad about yourself, may be not the facts. It could be those ideas you are lingering on, but those can change at any instant.</p>
<p>However, the instant you understand you have the ability inside yourself to really feel great, and it does not depend on your ideas or concepts about yourself:</p>
<p><strong>You are really free. Not free in the sense of my country is free, but the freedom that even though you may be in a prison&#8230; You are really free of yourself, and you become the real you.</strong></p>
<p>WHY?</p>
<p class="stickynote">A concept is a mental elaboration of the &#8220;object&#8221; thought. An idea represents the conjunction of those concepts into a bigger elaboration, and your inner relationship with those concepts.</p>
<p>Each idea can produce an action, an emotion, a desire, etc. It is the product of concepts, created since birth, by the people who surround you and your reaction to those interactions.</p>
<p>We have the ability to change your results, to change the reactions produced, if you take some of your time to think about:</p>
<p class="babysearch">Who is the real you beyond all those concepts and ideas?</p>
<div id="attachment_139" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"> <a href="http://linaru.projectlove.me/files/morning-glory-pool.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-139" src="http://linaru.projectlove.me/files/morning-glory-pool-300x225.jpg" alt="How deep are you willing to go?" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">How deep are you willing to go?</p></div>
<p>Society states: These are the rules, enter the matrix, you cannot think for yourself once you are there.</p>
<p>You have a choice each instant: I want to take the responsibility of my ideas and their consequence; created or not by society through deranged concepts.</p>
<blockquote><p>You can listen inside yourself; you know when something is going wrong, when there is something out there waiting to be understood, but you don&#8217;t have the time to find out why, you may be sad or angry at everything, you feel fear&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<ul class="checklist">
<li>When will enough be enough?</li>
<li> Who are you?</li>
<li>Why do we exist? What is the purpose of life and yours?</li>
<li>Are you happy? Are you sad? Are you in fear?</li>
<li>What is wrong and right? Does good and bad exist as I believe it does?</li>
<li>Why do I judge others? Am I judging myself as I judge others with those same ideas?</li>
<li>Why do you do what you do? Are you doing things because of you or because of what the collective mind tells you is right?</li>
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