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		<title>How to live freedom? Definition &#8211; Part 1 &#8211; Wake up!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 06:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is a free society? One with democracy? Not.
Just take a look at your &#8220;country&#8221;, and ask: Does the government work for you or for themselves? It is very easy to blind the population, most of us are sheep believing what others say without questioning. Why? We are afraid.

Afraid we could be wrong, instead of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is a free society? One with democracy? Not.</p>
<p>Just take a look at your &#8220;country&#8221;, and ask: Does the government work for you or for themselves? It is very easy to blind the population, most of us are sheep believing what others say without questioning. Why? We are afraid.</p>
<ol>
<li>Afraid we could be wrong, instead of accepting your perfect human nature of imperfection.</li>
<li>Afraid we have to take responsibility for our actions, instead of blaming others for our failures.</li>
<li>Afraid to confront the truth, instead of being constantly drunk with excuses and lies.</li>
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<p>People who work for themselves, and never taking in account the others are corrupt.</p>
<blockquote><p>Why? Corruption means dishonesty.</p></blockquote>
<p>You are not honest if you believe working at the government is so you can live better, public service means to serve the public&#8230; Let&#8217;s make it clear: Not to serve yourself by pretending you are working for others. <br />
Of course, if you honestly work with great devotion to others, you should be rewarded&#8230; However, the reward comes after you have given to others:</p>
<p class="tips"><strong>Remember</strong>: The more you give, the more you get.  Give, and you shall have.</p>
<p>Getting that clear, we must then think a little more about liberty&#8230; Is freedom given by a country or can you live trapped although living in a &#8220;free&#8221; country?  There will always be a &#8220;trap&#8221; where you live, people may be selfish, and therefore influence their surroundings, so you may not be able to do what you should. Is there a lack of freedom there? Where does your liberty end, and where does mine start? Well&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/71401718@N00/3242519210"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3087/3242519210_8fcaecd9ec.jpg" alt="His Holiness Dagchen Rinpoche´s hand holds a vajra drawing lines that close the Hevajra Mandala, after the empowerment / initiation, Tharlam Monastery, Boudha, Kathmandu, Nepal" hspace="5" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s give it another focus. Freedom as we have stated it for so long, does depend on our exterior world. However, the reality of freedom is that it does not depend on &#8220;the outer world&#8221; but deeply inside you. People may steal your whole, they may degrade your voice, and even try to rape your spirit, but they cannot touch your inner self if you don&#8217;t let them.<br />
Yes, I know, this sounds too idealist but think about it. At the end, death will only knock on your door, leaving your body behind&#8230;<br />
Let&#8217;s assume freedom only depends on your inner self&#8230;</p>
<p class="stickynote">Show your arguments against me&#8230; Make this world a better place, and think about it thoroughly. Don&#8217;t be just &#8220;like the herd&#8221;! THINK! ONCE AND AGAIN! Make a difference! Please!</p>
<p>Then, ask yourself:</p>
<ul class="checklist">
<li>Where does your freedom start and mine end?</li>
<li>Can freedom be gained?</li>
<li>Can you develop freedom from your own attachments and obsessive behaviors?</li>
<li>If you are constantly tormented by your conscience are you free from yourself?</li>
<li>Can you be free from yourself?</li>
<li>If you act according to your greatest sense of humanity and love, can you be free from your own judgments?</li>
<li>If you judge others, can you later judge yourself for the same issues when acting as you had previously judged?</li>
<li>If I treat you with respect, are you giving and providing freedom?</li>
<li>Is freedom only external or also internal?</li>
<li>How does freedom from yourself mean?</li>
<li>Does it mean to be selfish or giving?</li>
<li>What is freedom?</li>
<li>Can you really live freedom?</li>
<li>How does freedom relate to the truth and love?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Can you see it? It does not matter if you live in a free country, you are not free from your selfishness and suffering</strong>.</p>
<p class="redtag">How can you be free, truly free?  Is living in a free country enough? Is that country really free? NO! It is not free because each person living in that country is not free from itself.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s think about freedom with new eyes, and let&#8217;s realize that you are not free. You are trapped in the routine established by those who gain from it, in the illusion of happiness while you are surrounding of so much suffering, in the lies of the media and advertising so you may happily be asleep while your life slips away from you, and in so many other killing doses of &#8220;freedom&#8221; that actually in time makes it harder to take that terrible sleeping pill that convert us into drunken/drugged sheep who do not have/want the time to think.</p>
<p><strong>WAKE UP!</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/46922409@N00/1261287720"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1165/1261287720_80adf82c66.jpg" alt="Palace on Fire" hspace="5" border="0" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Can&#8217;t you see there is a fire in your garden?  Can&#8217;t you see&#8230; we are all burning in pain?</strong></p>
<p><strong>WAKE UP! Let&#8217;s make change possible by looking at the mirror&#8230;.!!! </strong> </p>
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		<title>How much will we let society affect our lives?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lina Ru </dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is the collective mind? How does the collective mind affect our daily lives?
Society as a group of people is just an aspect of the collective mind, it is the conjunction of different factors like: the general state of consciousness of the population, your inner division (what you believe vs. others believe) causing peer pressure, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What is the collective mind? How does the collective mind affect our daily lives?</strong></p>
<p>Society as a group of people is just an aspect of the collective mind, it is the conjunction of different factors like: the general state of consciousness of the population, your inner division (what you believe vs. others believe) causing peer pressure, and the clear necessity of doing something, to reach a certain ideal like beauty, money, power,etc. because it is well seen by the population.</p>
<p class="find">To be unaware how the collective mind influences; can affect us in such a way we become prisoners of their ideals without asking ourselves: What is my passion?  Do I work and feel fulfilled with it? Who am I?</p>
<p>I have tried to imagine why can we become prisoners of our collective (social) minds; It occurred to me (may be wrong) it is our fears, the need of acceptance, and to feel secure the reasons we loose our freedom.</p>
<blockquote><p>Freedom is not about being a &#8220;free country&#8221;; Freedom is about a free &#8220;you&#8221;, and that does not mean to do whatever you want, but to have the ability understand who are you, then you will know how does freedom really apply to each one of us.</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_146" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://linaru.projectlove.me/files/virtualpioneers_byflickr_krossbow.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-146" src="http://linaru.projectlove.me/files/virtualpioneers_byflickr_krossbow-300x181.jpg" alt="krossbow" width="300" height="181" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Virtual Pioneers @ Flickr: krossbow</p></div>
<p>For example, if the collective part of us accepts something, then we don&#8217;t have to think stuff for ourselves, and just act as how most of the people agree on.  So, we stop fighting into finding a meaning for life. We get accustomed and accept the supposed &#8220;fact&#8221;: Life is just that, get over it, and use your mind on things that produce results, like money (results the collectivity can use, and then assess as really good results).</p>
<p class="alert">However, the collective mind can be mistaken. It has been so many times along history. You always have a choice: To question or not to question, and find out things by yourself. Will you choose to become aware about your choices or will you choose to go with the flow?</p>
<p>The reason I believe we don&#8217;t question the collective mind as we should is that we don&#8217;t want to take full responsibility for our actions and its consequences. If you can say,&#8221; It is not my fault. It is not my mistake. It is not my consequence  It is the fault of the circumstances, it is the mistake of my parents, it is the consequence of a divorce, but never mine.&#8221; Then, you can have an excuse. You will not face the facts. You will not change, and this society will continue to degenerate.</p>
<p class="greentag">Your choices affect everything because you are part of it all.</p>
<p>At the end, you cannot divide yourself just by thinking you are different from the collective mind. You are inside of it, but are free to be yourself if you know who you are.</p>
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